Guys are NOT SO bothered about the nature, attitude, behavior , general likings, future prospects of the girl's as long as she is earning and ready to take care of her own expenses.... Girls for that matter are NOT SO bothered about the Ethics, Morals, Habits and general behavior of the guy as long as he is earning good....
I believe that every one is looking at the short term benefit of getting married in these cases.... ie: Financial independence .....Privacy is so common and so existent in today's relationship that in the name of freedom every partner is living his/her own life which is independent of the other partner rather there is no name / place for the other partner.... I seriously believe that if this continues further, the day when both the partners will have their own bed rooms isn't away ... bank accounts, cars, properties are already in the list , bedroom will also come soon.... these couples quite educated but lacks the basic sense of living in the society....there is no other picture in their life frame other than themselves ...
When at times, you talk about social / emotional responsibility to them, they laugh at it saying that when we will be in need of that we will see... as of now it's going on good,with she taking care of her own expenses and living her own life and not disturbing me... HA HA HA HA HA.... i seriously pity on these partners as if they continue with the same attitude , the day isn't far when life will laugh at them ... and then they won't have anything to buy with the amount of money they have collected out of this financial contract ....people like these make me believe that this is why we need divorce lawyers, police, old age homes, women equality laws and the list goes on as the financial contract is too fancy in the beginning ... the result is yet to come ....
Gud one...
ReplyDeleteCan relate financial matters with Dowry too... An Aspect Before marriage.